Brittany: My name is Brittany born and raised in Atlanta. I
am 23 years old and a senior at Kennesaw State University. My major of study is
Mass Communications. And, I am proud to say that I am one out of a few females
around my age that don’t have any children out of wedlock.
Jana Pauldo: You and me both and it’s not to many left. So,
let’s talk. How long was the relationship with your ex and what caused the two
of you to split?
Brittany: My ex and I were together for six years. We broke
up due to him cheating.
Jana Pauldo: Did you think the both of you (ex) splitting
and still communicating is the reason behind the drama?
Brittany: Yes and no we talked for a few months after we
split and I felt like he was playing both fields telling me he loved me and not
the new girl and I really didnt like that he was doing that but at the same
time I think the girl would have started drama anyways because when they
started talking the ex and I were still in a relationship and she knew about it
so her insecurities are a cause for the drama.
Jana Pauldo: From what I have read, these girls are verbally
and physically threatening you and conducting themselves in a matter that young
woman shouldn’t. Could you explain how this came about and what exactly is it
they are doing to you?
Brittany: This came about when the current girlfriend became
aware of the relationship with me and the ex. She verbally harasses me on Facebook,
Twitter, and Instagram. She has been calling and texting my phone pretending to
be my ex. She has called and text my phone cursing at me because she feels I
want him back. We have had one face to face altercation in public that could
have gotten physical.
Jana Pauldo: Damn she got issues!
Brittany: She has also had friends and family members to tag
me in pics of her and my ex along with verbally harassing me.
Jana Pauldo: Were you and you’re ex high school sweethearts?
Brittany: Yes we began dating our junior year of high school.
Jana Pauldo: Does your ex know about how these girls are
conducting themselves? If so, what has he said?
Brittany: Yes he knows and he always says he's going to
handle it but nothing happens and lately he has been helping her to harass me.
Jana Pauldo: If anything, what have you learned about this
relationship that you will take with you in your future and as a lesson
learned?
Brittany: I learned that just because you have been with a
person for a very long time doesnt mean that you know them and that they have
your best interest at heart. I know that I can never let my guard fully down
ever again.
Jana Pauldo: What are your close friends saying to you?
Brittany: My friends tell me that my ex is showing signs
that he still cares for me but he is acting out because he is upset at me for something
but he does not know how to have a conversation with me like an adult. They
also say that his new relationship can’t be to fulfilling for the both of them
since the girlfriend is so worried about me. They have to remind me not to
react in an immature manner by stooping down to their level.
Jana Pauldo: Any advice you want to give to females about
handling situations like these? I must also commend you because you are
handling it in a mature way.
Brittany: Well thank you, but it has not been easy to keep
my cool in this situation and I have had my moments where I didn’t respond in
the best way. I would tell any female in this situation or something similar to
not give anyone the satisfaction of taking your happiness away from you, you
don’t always have to fight fire with fire be the bigger person and ignore it.
Jana Pauldo: How has this relationship affected you with
moving on with your life?
Brittany: To be honest, I feel like I’m not ready for
another relationship right now I am emotionally drained and I don’t want my
spouse to have to deal with my drama from a past relationship.
Jana Pauldo: I also read where you and your ex are still on
communicating terms is that as far as it has gone or is it still also how it
was when you both were together?
Brittany: We are not really on communicating terms right now
we can’t get along with each other to have civilized conversations because his
girlfriend has lied to him so many times telling him that I have said and did
so many things to him that have never been said or done. When we talk now it’s
an argument which is completely different from how it was when we were together;
we never argued sure we had disagreements but we talked them out without
arguing.
Jana Pauldo: Do you care that he has a new girlfriend? Has
he expressed that he still has feelings for you?
Brittany: Absolutely not! As long as he is happy, I am happy.
I wish him nothing but the best. He has told me a few months ago while we were
on good terms that he couldn’t love the new girl because he was still in love
with me.
Jana Pauldo: Tell the reader’s and fans how to keep in
contact with you.
Brittany: Contact me by email at bgrayer1989@gmail.com, Facebook:
Brittany Danei', and twitter:@pure_ecstasy7
